Some couples spend their weekends antiquing together, others golf, go to clubs, attend concerts, garden, go to the movies, or watch TV. We write. Together. All the time.

For the solo author, writing is a solitary activity, and can be very lonely. Of course, some writers enjoy the solitude, but for others it can become tiresome. That’s why so many people write in coffee shops. We save a ton of money on frothy coffee drinks by writing at home, together.

A member of our critique group was recently talking about how hard it is for him to find time to write. His family obligations and job take up a lot of his time, which is the case for many writers. Our situation is a bit different though. Since we write together, couple time is one less thing to take away from writing time, because writing time is couple time. Every evening we sequester ourselves in a cozy room and tune out the rest of the world. Over hot beverages, or the occasional alcoholic concoction, we engage in deep and far-ranging conversation. While enjoying our favorite music, we engage in the primal act of creation.

This intense together time would not suit all couples, but it suits us very well. We both are introverts and homebodies. We honestly would not rather be at a party. Working toward a common goal is the perfect way for us to feel connected.

What do you think? Could you and your spouse write together?